I am a cancer survivor with a renewed perspective on life. Every day is a gift, and I cherish every moment. My journey through illness and recovery has shaped me into someone who is resilient, passionate, and ready to embrace the next big chapter of life — becoming a parent.

The experience has made me realize how important it is to live boldly and pursue dreams without hesitation. I’ve always wanted to be a mother, and now, I’m ready to bring that dream to life with the love and support of those around me.

When I’m not embracing life’s adventures, you’ll find me immersed in creativity. I’m an avid musician, playing multiple instruments, and I have a passion for designing doll clothes. Though it’s a fun side project, I love the joy it brings me. I also spend my time volunteering, as helping others is something that brings great fulfillment to my life.

Though I work as a real estate agent, my heart and soul are in the things I love — creating, helping, and embracing the beauty of life every day. Now, I’m ready to start the most exciting journey yet, becoming a mom, and I can’t wait to share this adventure with you.

I come from a family with a strong tradition of knowledge and learning, deeply rooted in academic values. My ancestors were scholars, with my great-grandfather being a well-known scholar who studied abroad, and my grandparents, both university professors. My father, also a professor and visiting scholar, has always been a source of inspiration for me. Growing up in such an environment, I was surrounded by people with vast knowledge, a deep thirst for learning, and a sense of acceptance toward the ups and downs of life.

I was raised with love, respect, and the freedom to explore. My family’s wisdom has shaped me into a resilient, curious individual, and I now want to pass that wisdom on to the next generation. I want my child to inherit the life lessons passed down through generations, ensuring that these valuable thoughts are not lost to time.

Love has always been the guiding force in my life. My grandparents’ unwavering love for each other, and my parents’ deep bond, have shown me the beauty of partnership. My parents, who still hold hands when they walk out the door, have set a beautiful example of enduring love. It is this environment that has shaped me into the person I am today – full of love and ready to give it.

I want to be a mother because I have so much love to give, and I want to share that love with my child, guide them, and show them the world with the same warmth and wisdom that has shaped my life.

I have always dreamed of having children, and at one point, I had a partner who shared this dream. We were preparing to start our family, but life had different plans for me. During our journey to conceive, I was diagnosed with estrogen-driven breast cancer. As part of my treatment, I froze my eggs and began chemotherapy. It was a difficult period, and during my treatment, my partner, who had once shared my dreams, made the decision to leave. He couldn’t wait for me to recover and face the long-term hormonal treatments required to control my estrogen levels.

This was one of the most painful experiences of my life, especially during a time when I was physically weak from the treatment. It took me a while to process everything, but as time went on, I realized this experience taught me valuable life lessons. It made me reflect on what truly matters and what I really wanted from life. I came to understand that my future didn’t have to revolve around waiting for a partner—I simply wanted to be a mother.

After completing my treatment, I realized that, despite everything, my desire to have a child had never wavered. Although carrying a pregnancy was no longer an option due to my medical condition, I was determined to find another way. Now, living without the pressure of a traditional relationship, I have found freedom to pursue my passions and my career. I also discovered that I didn’t need a husband to build the family I wanted—what I longed for was to have a child, to raise them in a loving, fulfilling environment.

I have two embryos stored, created with donor sperm, and while the chances may seem slim, I am ready to take this next step. If successful, I would love to raise one or two children—not at the same time, but in time. If I don’t succeed, I will accept it, knowing I did everything I could. I believe in the saying, ‘What’s meant to be will be, and what’s not, will pass.’

I live in Aurora, a lovely little town just north of Toronto, known for its charm and beautiful surroundings. The area is often called the “Golf Town” because of its quiet, scenic streets, beautiful parks, and peaceful trails. The mayor places a strong emphasis on greenery, so no high-rises are allowed, making it an ideal place to raise a child. My home is a cozy detached house, and it’s also located in a great school district—I’ve been curious about the local school for some time now.

I live with my parents, who are wonderfully independent and have their own hobbies. I’m usually the one cooking for the family, as I’m the best chef in the house, but they don’t need much from me—just love and good company. They’re both excited about the idea of having a grandchild and have already started reading parenting books. It’s going to be wonderful to have them around as they can’t wait to help out!

My home has a lovely room waiting for the baby to grow into, and whether it’s a little girl or boy, I will be sure to teach them all the skills they’ll need to live a fulfilling life. I’m a bit of a jack-of-all-trades with many talents, so I’ll have plenty to share. If it’s a boy, I may not be able to teach him basketball, but we’ll find a way to make it work. If the baby loves animals, we can even have a cat, clownfish, and sea anemone to grow up with, making sure they have a lot of fun and love in our home.

I’ve been a real estate agent for 11 years, and despite my baby face, I’m a pro at this. My superpower? Negotiating like a boss, especially when I’m working with sellers. I love helping people make big decisions about their homes, and let’s be real—I’m pretty good at it.

I’m also a Buddhist, which brings me a lot of peace. I volunteer at the temple now and then—it’s my go-to for unwinding. When I’m not doing that, I’m swimming to stay in shape. Oh, and I’m definitely an early bird. I get up early, read, and knock out my to-do list before the world wakes up. I’m always reading a book, aiming for at least one a month, and I can’t wait to read to my baby, swap thoughts, and share some good stories.

I’m into habit tracking, and every year I pick up something new. After my treatment, I got into Tai Chi, then I dabbled in fashion design, and now I’m obsessed with watercolor painting. I learn quickly, and I love it—if I start something, I’m all in. I’ve also been designing and making clothes for my dolls—yes, I’m basically a mini designer. Next, I’m thinking of learning digital pattern making so I can make cute clothes for my little one when they arrive. Maybe even launch my own kids’ clothing line—who knows? Gotta keep things interesting!

I want to make sure my surrogate feels supported every step of the way. From pre-pregnancy to birth, I will cover all reasonable expenses—medical costs, doctor’s visits, maternity clothing, and anything she needs to feel comfortable and well cared for. Emotionally, I understand the challenges of this journey and I’ll be there to offer support, whether through regular check-ins, video calls, or just being a listening ear when she needs it.

After birth, I’ll continue to support her during recovery, covering any necessary postpartum care or counseling. I want this experience to be as smooth and stress-free as possible for both of us. This journey is a partnership, and I’m dedicated to making sure she feels appreciated, respected, and supported throughout.

I would love to have a relationship built on mutual respect, trust, and open communication with my surrogate. During the pregnancy, I want to stay in touch regularly, whether it’s through video calls, messages, or check-ins to see how she’s doing. I respect her boundaries, so I’ll always be mindful of her comfort, but I want her to feel like she’s not alone in this journey.

After the birth, I think the level of contact will evolve depending on how we both feel. We may end up staying in touch as familiar faces or maybe even become close friends, like family; but I believe it’s important to let things unfold naturally. My priority is to always show appreciation for her role in this journey and ensure that we both feel comfortable with the boundaries we set.

Thank you so much for taking the time to read my story! If you’ve made it this far without getting bored, I’m already grateful! If my story resonates with you, or if you find yourself liking my vibe, then I truly believe we can be great friends—because when it comes to destiny, things just have a way of working out.

Come aboard my incredible journey! Set sail, let’s go! I can’t wait to share this magical experience with you—let’s make some beautiful memories together and bring a little joy into this world! ✨