We have been together since 2015, and from our very first conversations we felt a genuine connection rooted in shared values, curiosity, and a deep appreciation for family. We met one afternoon in a beautiful public garden in Lisbon, just before one of us headed off on a work trip to India. We kept in touch while I was away, sharing excitement and experiences across the miles. When I returned, our relationship felt natural and right. Before we knew it, Tiago had a toothbrush at my place.
We are balanced, supportive partners: I’m more extroverted and love spending time outdoors with friends, while Tiago is more introverted and enjoys indoor activities. Together we find joy in shared experiences: from travel and trying new restaurants to relaxing days at the beach, even in the winter. We enjoy new adventures, exploring new places, and building a life filled with laughter and connection. Our personalities complement each other, and we always support each other with care, patience, and respect.
Family has always been at the heart of who we are. I grew up in a large family surrounded by cousins, uncles, and constant activity, and that sense of togetherness has stayed with me. Tiago’s family is smaller but just as close-knit, and both of our parents are actively involved in our lives.
We are also blessed with a wonderful circle of friends. Some from childhood, others from different chapters of our lives and many of whom are now parents themselves. This community of family and friends means so much to us, and we look forward to sharing it with our future child.
As a same-sex male couple, surrogacy is our path to becoming parents. Due to legal restrictions in Portugal, we chose Canada for its strong legal framework, transparency, and protections for everyone involved. We have 18 PGS-tested embryos confirmed for this journey, half from each of us, all from the same donor.
Our hearts are full of hope that surrogacy will bring us the opportunity to raise a child with love, joy, and devotion. We also dream of having more than one child, and hope that this journey will someday lead to siblings for our future children.
In October 2025, we moved into a new home with parenthood in mind. It’s a spacious house with a beautiful garden, perfect for play and exploration, and a safe, quiet neighborhood that feels like the ideal place to raise a family. We live about 25 minutes from Lisbon’s city center, with parks, playgrounds, schools, and essential services close by. Our parents live nearby, and being within a supportive, family-oriented community means so much to us as we build our own.
We also share our home with Snow, our gentle and affectionate Golden Retriever. Snow joined our family in early 2024 and instantly brought joy, warmth, and laughter into our lives. He gets along well with people and other dogs, loves being outside, and is always ready for a cuddle or some playtime. Snow will be a loving companion for our child.
We both work in Lisbon in roles that allow flexibility and balance. Tiago works as a Project Manager, and I work as an SAP Delivery Manager. Both with options to work from home, which will allow us to spend quality time with our family. Tiago is also pursuing an MBA and keeps active through exercise and fitness. I enjoy going to the gym and learning new things.
We love to host friends at our home, enjoy meals together, and explore new restaurants and cultures. We also like to travel: in 2026 we’re planning visits to London (with a stop in Oxford for Harry Potter-inspired adventures), Switzerland for study, and a family trip to Madeira with Tiago’s parents. We value togetherness, shared experiences, and the simple joys of daily life.
We believe this journey should be rooted in mutual respect, trust, and care. From the beginning, we are fully committed to covering all approved costs and expenses related to the surrogacy process, in accordance with Canadian legislation and guidance, so that our surrogate never has to worry financially. We will always be mindful of her health, comfort, and wellbeing, including physical, emotional, and postpartum care.
We intend to provide the surrogate with consistent support. Not just as intended parents, but as caring partners in this journey. We will stay informed, involved, and accessible while always respecting her space, preferences, and boundaries.
We hope to build a positive, respectful, and open relationship with our surrogate throughout this process. We would welcome regular updates and communication in a way that feels comfortable and natural, whether through messages, occasional video calls, or whatever feels right for her at each stage.
After the pregnancy and birth, we are open to staying in respectful contact after the pregnancy, in a way that feels comfortable and appropriate for both sides..We value the connection formed through this experience and hope it brings joy and warmth to everyone involved.
From the bottom of our hearts, thank you for taking the time to read our story and for considering walking this beautiful path with us. We truly appreciate your generosity and compassion. We look forward to the possibility of meeting you and are deeply thankful for the support and care you bring to families on this journey.