Hi, we’re Natasha and Christopher and we want to thank you, from the bottom of our hearts, for taking a moment to get to know us.
Our love story began over thirteen years ago when we met at work. We started as friends, never imagining that our afterhours talks, inside jokes, and shared dreams would one day grow into a marriage built on love, trust, and unwavering devotion. One night, at a little karaoke bar we used to visit with friends, Christopher serenaded Natasha with “Don’t Stop Believin’,” by Journey. From that moment on, that song became our life anthem. It was also our wedding song, and a reminder that no matter what challenges come our way, love and hope never fade.
We were married nearly ten years ago at a beautiful European cultural center surrounded by family and friends, it was a joyful blend of our European and Caribbean roots. The day was filled with music, dancing, laughter, heartfelt speeches, and plenty of great food. Together, we’ve built a life centered on faith, humour, and deep respect for each other. Christopher brings the fun, Natasha the calm, and together we balance each other perfectly.
Several years ago, I (Natasha) was diagnosed with kidney failure. It was one of the most frightening times we’ve ever faced, but it revealed the true strength of our bond. Without hesitation, Christopher gave me one of his kidneys. His selfless act didn’t just save my life, it transformed our marriage and showed us the depth and meaning of unconditional love. Every day, I carry a part of him with me, a constant reminder that love can conquer even the greatest challenges, and it’s that same love we hope to share with our child.
Our home is warm, joyful, and filled with family traditions. Every Christmas we cherish our annual Christmas day marathon, starting the day with morning Mass, caroling, then spending the rest of the day visiting house to house sharing traditional dishes, and exchanging gifts with loved ones. On weekends, you’ll find us at our cozy cottage by the lake, hiking Ontario’s scenic trails, or having family cooking parties with everyone from our great-aunts to our newest nieces and nephews, making perogies and roti from scratch, a delicious mix of both our cultures. And, at the center of it all is our adorable, Bichon Frise fur baby, Noodles, who’s happiest snuggled up with us on the couch during Hallmark movie nights.
Our hearts are open, our home is full of love and we can’t wait to share it all with a little one. We dream of reading bedtime stories, singing lullabies, tiny first steps, and childlike laughter echoing throughout our home. We will be forever grateful to the incredible surrogate who will help make that dream come true. We truly believe that the journey to parenthood is unique and special, and being parents is about the love and care that waits for a child when they arrive and surrounds them once they’re here.
OUR UPBRINGING & FAMILY
Both of us were fortunate to grow up surrounded by love, happiness, and the steady presence of family. We were each raised in Toronto, Ontario where family values and togetherness shaped who we are today. From early on, we learned the importance of hard work, gratitude, and caring for one another, lessons that continue to guide our lives and the kind of parents we hope to become.
Natasha grew up in a lively Caribbean household filled with cultural expression, music, and celebration. Raised by her mother and grandmother, she learned the strength of women and the joy of family bonds. She is the eldest child and has one sister, a half-sister, a half-brother, and an amazing stepmom. While her parents are divorced, that just means double the family dinners, celebrations, support and love. With eight aunts and uncles on both her mother’s and father’s sides, and countless cousins across Canada and the Caribbean, Natasha was always surrounded by family. Her upbringing was full of music and creativity, she played musical instruments, performed in her high school band, and even became valedictorian of her graduating class. Her family encouraged her to dream big, persevere, and always be kind. They taught her that success is measured not by what you have, but by how you treat people along the way.
Christopher was raised in a loving, down-to-earth home with his parents and two older sisters. His father worked long hours to provide for the family, while his mother stayed home to nurture and care for them. Their home was always full of laughter, friends, and the smell of home-cooked meals. Christopher’s childhood included adorable family pets, a dog named Pepi and a cat named Putty Woody, and an open-door policy that welcomed everyone. Although many of his extended relatives live overseas, they remain close through family vacations, group chats, and video calls. His parents taught him to work hard, but also to find joy in life’s simple moments like playing catch in the park and camping in the backyard. Today, Christopher remains very close to his mother and sisters; they live nearby, and family dinners have become a treasured weekly practice.
Both of us grew up with strong family traditions, from homemade Halloween costumes, passed down family recipes, to family gatherings full of music and dancing. Our grandmothers played an enormous role in shaping who we are. They instilled in us the values of love, patience, and faith, and taught us to believe that anything is possible with determination and heart.
Together, we’ve carried those values into our own relationship. We’re a team in every sense, lifting each other up during life’s challenges. We are also proud aunts and uncles to four wonderful children, which has only deepened our desire to grow our own family. Our parents would make the most loving and hands-on grandparents, and our home, surrounded by family and lifelong childhood friends, is already filled with warmth, joy, and endless love waiting to be shared with our future child.
OUR JOURNEY TO CREATE OUR FAMILY
Our greatest dream has always been to build a family filled with love, laughter, and togetherness. To become first-time parents and share our hearts, home, and lives with a child of our own. Our home is a place where warmth and connection thrive. We love big family dinners full of stories and laughter, backyard barbecues that stretch late into summer evenings, game nights that end in friendly competition, and cozy nights curled up on the couch binge-watching reality TV together. These moments make our lives beautiful and blessed, and we can’t wait to one day share them with a little one.
Several years ago, Natasha was diagnosed with kidney failure. It was one of the hardest moments of our lives, yet one that revealed the depth of our love and the strength of our bond as a couple. Without hesitation, Christopher donated one of his kidneys to Natasha. His gift of life was the truest expression of selflessness, courage, and devotion. Every day, Natasha carries a part of Christopher with her, a constant symbol of his unwavering commitment and the quiet strength that has been the heartbeat of our marriage. Whether it’s cooking dinner, cleaning, running errands, or simply being there in every difficult moment, Christopher always puts the needs of our family first, and his care and tenderness are at the center of everything we share.
Though we haven’t yet been blessed with a child, our hope has never faded. Over the years, we’ve walked a long and emotional road through infertility with countless appointments, treatments, and IVF cycles, always holding on to the belief that one day, our dream would come true. Thanks to the transplant and Natasha’s perseverance, Natasha’s health has remained strong, but pregnancy was ultimately determined to be unsafe and not possible. We consulted with fertility specialists, endocrinologists, kidney and OB-GYN teams, exploring every path possible, only to face heartbreak and setbacks. Accepting that reality was immensely heartbreaking, but it never diminished our desire to become parents. Instead, it strengthened our resolve and deepened our appreciation for the many paths to parenthood, especially the incredible path of surrogacy.
We understand surrogacy is not an easy path, but one guided by shared trust, empathy, and purpose, and we are fully committed to walking it together. The courage and compassion it takes to help another family grow through surrogacy is something we hold in the highest regard. We’re endlessly grateful for the possibility of meeting someone who feels called to help us create our family, and for their strength, generosity, and the selfless love they bring into the world. We’re ready for this path with open hearts, positivity, and a deep respect for the women who make it all possible. After more than seven years of longing, determination, and faith, we are prepared, emotionally, physically, and financially to begin this next chapter. We have four frozen PGT-A tested embryos waiting, and we know in our hearts that the right surrogate will help bring our miracle to life.
OUR HOME
As future parents, our greatest hope is to raise our child in a home overflowing with love, fun, and kindness. A place where they will always feel safe, supported, and celebrated for everything that makes them unique and special. We imagine our days filled with gentle routines and simple moments, bedtime stories, cozy cuddles, bath time giggles, nap-time lullabies, and endless laughter that fills every corner of our home. When we purchased our home, we made sure it had space to grow into, including a bright, sunlit spare room that we can’t wait to transform into a nursery filled with books, toys, and warmth. We also share our home with our adorable fur baby, who absolutely loves children and is already part of our dog-loving community.
We live in a beautiful, family-friendly neighbourhood in Toronto, Ontario, a place that feels tailor-made for raising a child. Our community is vibrant, tree-lined, and filled with young families, friendly neighbours, childhood friends and the cheerful sound of children playing at the nearby park and splash pad. Just across the street is a brand-new elementary school, daycare, community centre, and library, all the places we can already picture exploring hand-in-hand with our little one. We’re a short stroll from Lake Ontario, with its beaches, gardens, boardwalks, walking trails, and even a local ice cream shop, perfect for sunny afternoon walks. Our neighbourhood also offers a community pool, skating rink, and several beautiful parks and green spaces, perfect for enjoying the outdoors with our child. Steps away we have a family doctor, hospitals, and dentist giving us peace of mind that our child will always be well cared for close to home.
Creativity, culture, and connection are a big part of our lives. Living in Toronto means we’re fortunate to be surrounded by world-class museums, historic sites, theatres, and concert halls, all of which we can’t wait to experience with our child as they grow curious about the world around them. Family traditions are also at the heart of who we are. We look forward to sharing the joy of attending events like the Santa Claus Parade and the Kiddies’ Caribbean Carnival that happen every year in our neighbourhood. Living close to the Rogers Centre and Scotiabank Arena also means we’re just steps away from cheering on our beloved Toronto sports teams and attending the Blue Jays, Maple Leafs and Raptors games, another family tradition and passion we can’t wait to share.
We are both blessed to come from large, loving families filled with siblings, cousins, aunts, and uncles who are already eager to welcome our child. Our families live close to us, and Natasha’s sister lives in our neighbourhood while Christopher’s sister and mother live a short distance away. Our nearby church community adds another layer of warmth and belonging, a true village ready to surround our baby with love and support. Above all, we hope to raise our child in a space knowing they are deeply cared for every step of the way.
MORE ABOUT US
We’re a fun-loving, family-oriented couple who’ve built our life around love, laughter, and togetherness. Over the past few years, we’ve made intentional career changes to create a more flexible, family-focused lifestyle. Although we both have a strong legal background and years of experience working at the same prestigious downtown Toronto law firm, Christopher now works from home as a Law Clerk for one of Ontario’s leading Intellectual Property law firms. His transition to remote work has brought balance, flexibility, and more precious time at home. Natasha, meanwhile, shifted from the traditional 9–5 office routine to working seasonally as a Tax Accountant just fifteen minutes from home. This change allows her to focus on family and pursue her dream of one day becoming a full-time, stay-at-home mom.
Our shared passion for creativity shines through in our DIY home renovations and furniture up-cycling projects. We love blending craftsmanship with imagination, transforming simple pieces into something unique and meaningful for our home and cottage.
Our home is made even warmer by our sweet and sociable Bichon Frise, Noodles. He is our little bundle of joy and constant companion. Noodles loves children, family gatherings, cottage weekends, and never misses a road trip.
Cooking is another shared joy in our lives. We love exploring recipes that reflect our cultural backgrounds, one evening might feature European comfort food, and the next, vibrant Caribbean dishes. Christopher especially enjoys baking Christmas Kifli cookies, a tradition and recipe passed down from his grandmother.
In our free time, you’ll often find us outdoors swimming, canoeing, hiking, or discovering hidden gems across Ontario. Winter brings skating, snowshoeing, and cozy nights spent playing dominoes by the fire. Often our adventures take us to Algonquin Park, Niagara-on-the-Lake, Prince Edward County, and Blue Mountain, where we get to recharge and create lasting memories. We also love cheering on our favourite Toronto sports teams at the games, whether it’s the Blue Jays, Maple Leafs, or Raptors and we can’t wait to share that excitement and passion with our future child.
After nearly ten years of marriage, we continue to cherish our date nights, too, from dance lessons and bike rides to exploring seasonal festivals throughout Ontario. These moments keep our connection strong and full of blessings.
Family means everything to us. We treasure family dinners filled with homemade meals, laughter, and friendly games. Our lifelong friends are an extension of our family, and backyard barbecues and summer corn roasts parties are some of our favourite traditions. Our loved ones are also spread across Canada, Europe, Australia, and the Caribbean, all of whom play a special role in our lives. We look forward to introducing our future child to these countries, their cultures, history, and endless beauty, from the beaches of the Caribbean to the cobblestone streets of Europe.
Together, we’ve built a life that feels fulfilling, balanced, and full of love. Our life radiates warmth, stability, and gratitude, and we’re truly ready, emotionally and practically, to welcome a child into our hearts and family.
HOW WE WILL SUPPORT OUR SURROGATE
Supporting a surrogate through her pre-pregnancy, pregnancy, and post-pregnancy journey would be one of the most meaningful and heartfelt parts of this experience for us. We’re based in Toronto, Ontario, but open to partnering with a surrogate anywhere in Canada. We’d be more than happy to travel for appointments, ultrasounds, childbirth preparation classes, or to be there for the delivery if she wishes. We know surrogacy is both a beautiful and emotional journey, and our goal is to ensure our surrogate feels genuinely cared for, respected, and valued every step of the way, not just as part of this process, but as an extraordinary woman making something truly life-changing possible. We’ll communicate openly, stay attentive, and ensure she always feels comfortable, and encouraged throughout this journey.
From the very beginning, we want her to feel listened to, understood and appreciated. We’ll do everything we can to make this experience as comfortable and stress-free as possible for her and her family. Whether that means helping with errands, arranging transportation to appointments, sending meals, picking up groceries, or regular check-ins via calls, texts, emails or video chats with encouragement and care, we’ll always be there to offer our support in ways that feel thoughtful and personal. We believe kindness and small gestures of appreciation go a long way, whether that’s a care package, a heartfelt note, or a moment just to say thank you for all that she’s doing.
Having walked a long and emotional road through infertility, we understand the physical, emotional, and financial commitment involved in pregnancy. We want our surrogate to feel completely at ease and reassured knowing that all pregnancy-related and post-pregnancy expenses will be fully covered, including medical costs, prenatal vitamins, maternity clothing, travel, and any additional needs that help her feel at ease and looked after. Our goal is to create a sense of security and peace of mind so she never has to worry about the practical side of this journey and can instead focus on her own well-being.
To us, surrogacy is a partnership rooted in mutual trust, compassion, and gratitude. We would love for our surrogate to feel that she has a true support team behind her. If she’s comfortable, we’d be honoured to be part of special moments such as ultrasound appointments, the gender reveal scan, or the delivery itself. However, we fully respect her comfort level and our approach will always be guided by what feels right for her.
Above all, we want our surrogate to know how deeply grateful we are for the incredible gift she’s giving. This act of love and generosity will make our dream of becoming parents a reality, and we will never take that for granted. We’ll be there with empathy, patience, positivity, and care, celebrating every milestone and offering unwavering support from start to finish. Our hope is to make this journey as joyful, compassionate, and meaningful as possible, while honouring her strength, her family, and the beautiful heart at the center of it all.
OUR RELATIONSHIP WITH OUR SURROGATE
We are very open and flexible regarding the level of involvement during and after pregnancy, and want our surrogate to feel in control of how much communication she would like. Whether she prefers regular check-ins or occasional updates, we want her to know that her comfort, time and preferences come first. We would love to stay connected through calls, texts, emails or video chats, celebrating milestones together and sharing in the excitement of each stage, but we are happy to follow her lead in terms of frequency, style, and timing. We want her to feel valued and empowered every step of the way. Our priority is to create an environment of trust and ease, where she feels free to express herself and share her thoughts and feelings openly during the entire process.
If she is comfortable, we would be thrilled to attend important doctor’s appointments, ultrasounds, the gender reveal scan and, of course, to be present during the delivery. Being there to witness and share in the joy of welcoming our baby is something we hope will be a meaningful and memorable part of the journey. Beyond attendance, we want to offer her emotional support, encouragement, and reassurance, making sure she knows she is never alone and that her well-being is our top priority.
After the birth, we hope to maintain a friendship at a level that feels natural, ongoing and comfortable for her, while showing our appreciation and reinforcing the genuine bond that has formed throughout this journey. Whether this involves occasional updates, sharing milestones, or simply expressing our heartfelt gratitude, we want her to know that the incredible gift she has given us will always be cherished. Our hope is that our relationship will continue to be warm, enjoyable, and mutually fulfilling, reflecting the deep gratitude and admiration we feel for her immeasurable generosity.
Ultimately, we hope this journey is joyful, uplifting, and meaningful for everyone involved. Our vision is to foster a respectful, and kind relationship built on communication, care, and shared celebration. If it feels right, we hope to remain a part of each other’s lives in a way that is comfortable and enduring, recognizing our unique connection created through this extraordinary experience. We want our surrogate to feel celebrated, supported, and deeply valued, not just during the pregnancy, but throughout her life, as someone who has given us the most incredible and special gift imaginable.
TO OUR FUTURE SURROGATE
To the incredible woman who may carry our future little one, thank you so much for taking the time to read our story and for even considering being a surrogate. We know this isn’t a decision made lightly, and we deeply admire the faith, strength, and teamwork it takes to help another family grow. You are truly giving the most extraordinary gift, the gift of life, and for that, we are endlessly grateful.
If you choose to walk this journey with us, please know that we will honour it with the utmost care, respect, and appreciation. We believe surrogacy is a partnership built on trust, kindness, and open communication. We want you to feel valued, supported, and comfortable at every stage, emotionally, physically and practically. Whether that means attending appointments together, checking in regularly, or simply being a listening ear when you need one, we’ll be there for you, every step of the way.
We’ve always dreamed of growing our family, and it means so much to even have the chance to share that dream with someone as special as you. Our hope is to create a connection that feels natural and genuine, one where you always feel appreciated and in control of how involved you’d like us to be. We’ll make sure you have the support you need before, during, and after pregnancy, because your comfort and wellbeing matters just as much as the little life we hope to bring into the world together.
We promise to raise our child knowing the incredible story of love and selflessness that made their life possible. They will grow up understanding that they were brought into this world through kindness, courage, and the beautiful heart of a woman who helped make our family complete. You will forever be part of their story.
From the bottom of our hearts, thank you for considering being part of our journey. No matter what you decide, please know how much we admire you and all surrogates for the extraordinary, life-changing gift you give. You help create families and legacies, and that is nothing short of miraculous.