At 45, I’ve journeyed through life with a heart brimming with hope and dreams, tempered by resilience and lessons learned. Once, love’s compass guided me to Shanghai, a tale of romance that bloomed beautifully across miles. Though by 2013 our lives took different routes due to distinct life philosophies, we departed with mutual respect, with the memory of our bond still warm. The subsequent chapters of my life were deeply immersed in entrepreneurial passions, with the fervor of ambition sometimes overshadowing personal aspirations. As the sole beacon of hope for my aging parents, the yearning in my heart to hear the joyful laughter of a child has intensified. Today, I reach out with humble hope, seeking a compassionate lady who can help turn my dream of fatherhood into a reality.
My roots trace back to a lineage of dedication, resilience, and commitment to excellence. I was fortunate to complete my high school education in the vibrant city of Vancouver, BC. Further nurturing my passion for technology, I earned a Bachelor’s degree in Computer Science from the esteemed McGill University in Montreal. My thirst for knowledge continued, leading me to acquire an MBA degree from the University of British Columbia, also in Vancouver.
My family’s journey to Canada began in 1994 when I was a young 16-year-old. We brought with us not just belongings, but rich traditions, values, and an illustrious history. The medical field runs deep in my veins, with a lineage of doctors spanning from my grandparents to great-grandparents. My great-grandfather, a visionary of his time, founded a hospital in Shanghai, China, serving countless with dedication until the tides of the 1940s civil war brought change.
On the other side of my family tree, my mother, a brilliant mechanical engineer specializing in mining machinery, carries the legacy of my maternal grandfather—a military officer with the Kuomintang, who navigated the complexities of a nation in flux during the 1940s.
This blend of medical excellence, engineering prowess, and unwavering commitment to duty in my family has shaped my values, ambitions, and the person I am today.
Over the years, life has presented its unique blend of challenges and opportunities. While my professional and personal endeavors kept me engaged, it also meant that, for the past decade, I haven’t had the companionship of a life partner. This absence naturally led to not having the chance to start a family in the traditional sense.
Yet, the innate longing to become a father never waned. Recognizing this deep-seated desire within me, I sought out possibilities and was fortunate enough to collaborate with the Asian Egg Bank. This endeavor was fruitful, and I’m grateful to now have three embryos.
I don’t face any medical infertility issues. My journey toward fatherhood is shaped more by circumstance and timing than biology. I am a healthy male, blessed with the ability to have children. Today, my dream is simple yet profound: to raise my own child, to offer them love, wisdom, and the best of what life has to offer. Through the invaluable process of surrogacy, I hope to make this dream a reality.
I currently reside in a spacious four-bedroom house located in the serene community of Unionville, Ontario. While my parents are presently in Vancouver, they’re soon transitioning to Unionville. To facilitate this, I’ve recently purchased a new home in Richmond Hill, Ontario, where I intend to move. My parents will be taking over my existing residence in Unionville. The presence of family close by is something I deeply value, especially as I embark on the journey of fatherhood.
Markham, Ontario, known for its rich cultural diversity and quality education, is where I envision my child’s early years unfolding. With a solid foundation in mind, I’ve planned for them to attend a Montessori daycare up until they’re six.
Education, for me, goes beyond textbooks. I want my child to be a global citizen, fluent not just in languages but also in understanding varied cultures. This aspiration will take them on academic journeys to France and Japan during their elementary years. However, as they transition into the critical phase of secondary schooling, I plan for them to return and complete their studies in Canada. Through these experiences, I aim for my child to truly grasp the beauty of diversity and the interconnectedness of our global community.
Life has graced me with various roles and experiences, each refining my persona. I fondly remember my time with a delightful King Charles Cavalier; though our paths diverged after my divorce, and he now joyfully resides with my ex-wife.
Entrepreneurship is a significant part of my life. I’ve proudly established and managed several ventures, ranging from post-secondary educational institutions, and a few Montessori schools, to an immigration consultancy. Additionally, I’m excitedly venturing into the hospitality sector, with dreams of creating memorable experiences in the hotel business.
When not immersed in business, I revel in the adrenaline rush that skiing offers. Traveling, especially to the picturesque locales of Europe, is a passion. These journeys not only satiate my wanderlust but also give me a deeper appreciation of cultures and histories. My evenings are often illuminated by the company of friends, where we share tales over fine wines. While I’ve never been drawn to smoking, an occasional cigar in good company serves as a cherished tradition among close friends.
My aspirations and experiences are varied, but at the core, I value relationships, learning, and creating a positive impact in all I pursue.
The journey of surrogacy is profound and deeply personal. As we embark on this path together, my foremost priority is to ensure that you feel valued, supported, and cherished every step of the way. While my businesses provide a stable financial foundation, it’s the bond of trust and mutual respect we develop that truly matters to me.
I am committed to creating an environment for you that is not just comfortable but is enriched with memorable and joyful experiences. Beyond taking care of all the practical aspects such as covering travel, meals, and any other related expenses, I aim to be a pillar of emotional support. Whether it’s arranging for entertainment that you enjoy or simply being there to listen, my goal is to make this journey one of shared hope, compassion, and understanding.
The essence of this commitment goes beyond finances. It’s about recognizing the depth of this gesture, honoring it, and ensuring that from pre-pregnancy, through pregnancy, and post-partum, you feel genuinely cared for, from the depths of my heart.
Embracing the role of a single father, I truly value the unique bond and shared journey we will experience through surrogacy. It would be my utmost pleasure and a source of comfort to maintain close and ongoing contact with you. Not only do I believe that there will be insights and perspectives that you can offer as I navigate fatherhood, but I also view this connection as a celebration of the beautiful journey we’ve undertaken together.
Welcoming you into my circle of family and friends would be a joy. As a single father, my life is an open book, and I feel there’s no greater story to share with my community than the tale of our shared endeavor in bringing life into the world. Your presence and continued connection would be a cherished part of that narrative.