I was born in China and immigrated to Australia in early 1990’s. I am a professional art teacher.
I first graduated Fine Arts degree of a famous university in Australia. Then education degree at the University of Melbourne. I once part-time teacher at a university. Also I created my own art education business more than 20 years. The types of art I am good at include: Oil painting, acrylic painting，drawings, Chinese ink painting, calligraphy, etc.

In the past three years, I have devoted myself to creating a series of works about overseas Chinese celebrating traditional festivals, using realistic painting methods to record the actual life of overseas Chinese; historical facts.

My Upbringing…

I was born in Guangzhou, China, with an old sister and a younger brother.

I studied education at a university in China and became an art teacher. In 1990, I continued my studies in Australia and became a professional art teacher there. My family three generations are teachers! My grandmother, mother and I are all teachers. My father is a mechanical engineer, but he died in China when he was 40. My sister is also a mechanical engineer.

All of our family members immigrated to Australia in the 1990s. My mother’s brother – my uncle’s family immigrated to Canada in the 1980s.

My Desire to Become a Mother…

I am divorced, single, no children; and have lived with my brother for many years, who is also single and loves children. I have try to find a suitable male partner who loves children.

When I was studying in university in Australia, I married an Australian man. I got pregnant naturally for the first time, and my ex-husband suddenly didn’t want children! He complains to me every day about how many problems and mental pressure he has after having a child; that he will have to take his child to school every day; and that he will have to worry about vehicles when crossing the road, so on. When I was 4 and a half months pregnant, I had signs of threatened miscarriage one night and rushed to the hospital to seek emergency treatment. Who knew that my ex-husband followed me to the hospital and objected to my treatment in front of the doctor; then he took me home. I asked why? My ex-husband said that the doctor said that just resting would be enough. Without access to medical care, I miscarried a week later. And my ex-husband smiled and said, “That business is finished!” After that, I got divorced; I never met a male partner who wanted children.

So I used UVF treatment by myself and selected sperm from a sperm bank. I have been undergoing IVF treatment for 9 or 10 years, but I have not been able to successfully give birth to a child. It may be because I am too old, also there are too many external interferences after the embryo implantation, I cannot have a good rest, and I am busy with work, etc.

For a long time, I have been working hard to become a financially independent woman. For many years, babies have been appearing in my dreams, both boys and girls! So cute and talented!

Hope my dreams come true! I currently have nearly a dozen frozen embryos!

My Hobbies and Home…

My occupation – An Art teacher.
Pets – I always have some Gold fish! I once had a cat and rabbits.
Hobbies – I am a literary and artistic person!
I used to like dancing and learned gymnastics when I was a child. (Folk dance, imitating ballet). There has been no dancing in the past 10 years. Now I like gardening; cooking; making art. I like to collect porcelain items, vases, flower plates, etc. The furnishings in my home are full of art; the paintings I created fill the walls. Sometimes I go swimming; play table tennis; badminton. I have also learned tennis; I have also learned Tai Chi sword; sword dance should be no problem.

I walk several times a week and work out at home.
I love day trips! Go to the mountains and wineries in the suburbs; or go for a walk on the beach. Stop by for afternoon tea and try local delicacies.

My home Is in a good location: close to every thing! 5 minutes walk to library, shipping Centre; Tram and train stations.

The street I live on is a park 500 meters away from my house, and there are many parks nearby! This is very suitable for children to do sports in the park, such as walking, cycling, playing basketball, and parties, etc.

Children’s schools
There are many good primary schools near my home and middle schools that rank among the top five in the province’s university enrollment rate. Here are many good primary schools near my home and middle schools that rank among the top five in the province’s university enrollment rate.

Regarding children’s education – children will mainly study the main subjects of school education, and other skills/interest classes/sports will be electives based on the children’s hobbies and interests. It is important for the future to let my children be happy, healthy, and grow up happily!

I have taught many primary school and high school students, and they have all successfully been admitted to key universities and studied their favorite subjects; they have become successful people. I will use these experiences to support my child.

Community and Neighbors – There is a community activity center near my home where there are groups playing table tennis. I usually exchange flowers and plants with my neighbors; and on special holidays – get together.

Relationship with my Future Surrogate

Regarding how to support my surrogate mother. I have no experience about that. However, based on my many years of experience as a teacher, communication with each other is very important! The surrogate mother and I should always understand and communicate with each other, and we should care and greet each other! Financial support is also important! Because I live in Melbourne and there is a long distance from Canada, I cannot go shopping with my surrogate mother; but I will give gifts to my surrogate mother from time to time to express my gratitude! And I will pay fees and expenses on time as directed by the agent.

The surrogate during and after pregnancy, I hope the surrogate mother and I can become good friends! After the child is born, if the surrogate mother wants to see a video of the child, I will send it to her. Or if chat with her after the child can speak, that is no problems! We can make time for the chat! Surrogate mother and the child can meet for a period of time. And we are welcome & invite the surrogate mother to come to Australia to visit us! Or we may come to Canada to visit the surrogate Mather, because I have relatives live in Canada! For more details, we could discuss in the future!

Thank you for reading our story and considering being our surrogate! Because your dedication brings me happiness! Happy and happy family! Because you gave me a new family member! You are my angel! I hope this new born baby could inherit the good qualities of our family! And the child would be smart and studious! Full of wisdom and love! Can contribute to human society!

I will be very grateful to my surrogate mother! 💕